Testimonial: Bishop T.D. Jakes’ Daughter Talks Struggling With Divorce

Sarah Jakes, daughter of the renowned Bishop T.D. Jakes, announced this past August that she and her husband, former
Washington Redskins linebacker Robert Henson were getting a divorce.

“I have built my ministry and identity around being the best wife and a mother I can be. For quite sometime I have tried to steer through some serious troubles at home,” Henson wrote on her blog at “As much as I wanted my marriage to last, it cannot.”

Now the 24-year-old Jakes, who heads up the Women’s Ministry at her father’s ministry The Potter’s House in Dallas, is acknowledging that she really had a tough time emotionally after splitting from her husband.

In a new blog post, Jakes explained that sharing the heartache of her marriage ending is a testimony she hopes can help God’s people.

Robert Henson & Sarah Jakes

“This time last year I was preparing an introduction for my father at ‘Woman Thou Art Loosed’ that would change the very essence of who I am. A year later and I have experienced many highs and lows, but I haven’t faced anything as devastating as who I was before I gave in to that small still voice,” Jakes wrote. “I, nor anyone who knows me, would have ever imagined that I would stand before a crowd and speak from the heart about who I am, what I’ve done, and how God used me anyway. When I spoke last year at the conference I spoke about what I did and what happened TO me, this year I will stand a living testimony about what I discovered was IN me.”

Jakes wants her honesty to inspire and help others who may be facing obstacles in their own lives.

She continued: “A part of trusting Him, for me, means being honest with the people He has placed me in front of… From the moment thousands heard my reality or read my blog there has been one consistent message: transparency… It is the desire of my heart to always remain the most authentic version of myself, to never lead a life that suggests there was no need for the blood shed on Calvary. I will not choose to live a life where I lead people to a God, I can no longer access for myself. I truly believe his strength is made perfect in my weakness. I will constantly live a life displaying my weakness and vulnerability so I can tell you about the strength of our God.”

The preacher’s daughter, who came under scrutiny for having a child out of wedlock as a teenager, takes ownership of all of her flaws in her blog post in an effort to encourage others to push beyond their shortcomings.

“So here I am….teen mom, divorcee, preacher’s kid, daughter, sister, book lover, writer, chef, part-time comedienne, smart mouth, mother, friend, food lover, and television enthusiast…good and bad this is what I have to offer… I may look like a mess on paper, may not be much to look at yet, but He still trusts me with this genuine message. I am not perfect, I am not always right, I do not always handle things the right way, and I have certainly had my fair share of struggle, but I am redeemed,” she concluded.

Jakes is slated to have involvement in her father’s forthcoming talk show on BET, “TD Jakes Presents.”

Sarah Jakes


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  1. D. Futrell 5 October, 2012 at 11:14 Reply

    I think this is a great testimony. May the Lord continue to use her and keep her as only He can. God has done a great work and still moving by His Spirit. Be ye steadfast unmoveable always abounding in the work of the Lord.

  2. Roz 8 October, 2012 at 19:17 Reply

    Sarah, I’m sorry to hear about your splitting from your husband. Keep your head held high. This is a detour to your destiny. Greater things are coming your way. Be steadfast un-moveable always abounding in the work of the Lord. Praying for you!

  3. Dennis Moore 1 November, 2012 at 23:15 Reply

    I feel sorry for both people.the bible mentions the fellwship of his suffering and god hates divorce.Yet people love pleasure rather than god.Divorce is the last choice and to often it is the first.The devil is proud of divorce its one of his favorite tools.This girl has a father who is a entertainer first and dispenser of bad theology second.He of the prop hanky and the prancing and preening vaudville circus sideshow making a arse of himself for profit.The scriptures mention those of the false teacher brand who scripture says will lead many astray.With such a blind man leading the daughter and his followers in his mone$try instead of a ministry they always end up in a pitt. The man plays patti cake with the world in his celebrity worship movies and ends up making movies.I guess if the apostles were alive they would form the Biggie 12 production company and remake titanic with peter playing the titanic skipper.

    • Lucia 31 October, 2013 at 06:31 Reply

      Being a preacher’s daughter does not mean one does not face challenges – no wo/man enters into marriage just to taste divorce, so think before you write you stupit comments unbrainless comments. If you r lazy to work hard leave TD alone

    • Annointed One 27 November, 2013 at 22:01 Reply

      Why the hatred? How mean. What have you done to make someone’s life better? Mr. Jakes blesses people daily, by the millions. Get rid of the bitterness and jealousy and you will feel better. Pastor Jakes Ministry helps me all the time. Receive Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and you will speak well of people. Jesus loves you so much he died for you. Have a blessed night. James 3:16

  4. frances 27 November, 2012 at 10:49 Reply

    Didn’t Tom Joyner file divorce papers against his wife Donna Richardson Joyner. They’re members of the Potters House.

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